Its Just 498a.... Don't Worry

If you are caught in a false case of dowry harassment 498a and alimony law CRPC 125 0r DV… then do not panic. Do not commit a disgusting act like suicide for fear of going to jail.

Pay attention to the following points!

1.498a Dowry harassment comes as bundle together with a 406,504,506 IPC and CRPC 125 (alimony) seamless package for a husband and his family! Ever since the Supreme Court stayed the arrest on 498A, 377,354 and 307 have been imposed.

(Sections like 376,377,354, and 307 can be invoked only if they are found to be correct in the investigation or otherwise are omitted in the final report. After the case is filed, first of all you should understand that you are not alone. "There are lakhs of people like you on whom the petty differences of husband and wife in the marriage have been turned into dowry harassment cases so that the fear of jail will cause the lakhs of the husband A ransom can be recovered.

 2. First of all decide that the wife is your emeny now "who has sued 498A to control your life"

 Do not be under dilemma that under the influence and pressure of mother-in-law and brother-in-law, the wife filed the case .Because the husband, despite the filing of the case, remains mentally confused that "the wife did not want to sue" She is Bholi Bhali.

It is necessary to change such a mentality and decide that you have been prosecuted and you have to avoid false cases. Normally 498a trial takes 3 to 4 years in which you have to choose the weapon (evidence) and truth to defend you and your keens.

3. Take the bail immediately, 90% of the war with bail is in your grip. As soon as the day dream breaks of your enemy's or so called bholi bhali bibi, intention to send you to jail. You are on the path to win the battle. Then go every date for 3 to 4 years and fight the case with keeping yourself patient and keep your head cool. This is just mind game. Just wehn get chance strike hard, very hard!

4. Note that after the case, the most terrifying worry is about social prestige and defaming , NEVER EVER think that you have lost everything and every this is over, even if you have to go to jail for 2-3 days, remember ”Shri Krishna, the protector of Dharma was born in prison. And friend trust me jails are much better to stay than living disconnectged and depressed confined in grief. Why can't you think lets have some experience and get adventure of it without cost. by the way let me ensure you are not going to jail 99.99 % unless you have done any heinous crime like murder. So Just Chill !!!  

"Only Human being  live in jail"  you are innocent until the case is decided.Fear of jail only leads to suicide "But understand that if the innocent went to jail, he is a strong warrior of this dharmayudha and his victory is sure. 

5. The word "dowry" is contradictory and it is very difficult for the police to collect the evidence, because the complaint is filed only by verbally filing the case. always remember if taking dowry is punishable then giving dowry is also punishable. So let her use the word dowry in her statement "Shapathpatra" if she did then trust me she has done blunder. Just to share only 2 % of the 498a case has been gone in favour of the girl. so tell which side you are in. 

 

6. Your Asur means father-in-law has given "dowry" he will never accept and you have taken it will not be proved.  Sometimes it will be called Stridhan and sometimes it will be called expenditure in the marriage incurred. The father-in-law will say "I am the vitim of being father of a girl. I have been forced to pay for the wedding, I have taken loan or sold my everything to fulfill their demand.

If so, Just smile he is cultivation way for your rescue,  " If father-in-law cries out the expense, he himself will be tall for 5 years because giving dowry is also a crime " . If he tells more than the amount of the father-in-law's wedding expenses, then take the help of Tax Evasion Petition, the Income Tax Department will take action and take account of every cent. You can get the format here in the blog itself. 

7. Your wife has put allegation and filed the case, she has to prove "You will have a little trouble, registering attendance on every one to two months. There will be a panic of the court at the beginning, but have smile and thank her for this adventure ride. she has to earn her own living now. she has to accept the fate of being deserted. after 1 year she will lose all dear ones. Dont worry you will be doing the same you used to like your job, your friends but she has to start everything she never did and not having the habit. she has to pay her billsand she will be in trouble to get the things with her own resources. Just imagine and be happy.

 

8. There are discharges, quash, revisions petition available in the court which prove you innocent, which should be used by your advocate from time to time. Just you have to study some laws and while you are calm and patient you can see the loopholes and flaws to turn the table in your side. 

9. To avoid maintenance, you should use Right to Information RTI to get wife's job and marksheet etc. Even proof that she is able to earn and she is not so handicap. Enjoy the moment while you try to use RTI for everything and collect the documents.

 10. Demand for Money in the name of compromise and conciliation is just a way to down your moral and to make you scared. Just be firm and say to them " I will fight the case for 1years and will not stop till prove myself innocent,  "If the court sentences jail, I will accept it. I have the high court and supreme court".Just smile.

Even giving single rupee in the name of the agreement/ Settlement will make them feel about easy money and we cannot let others to make it a trend to extort money. by false cases after marriage today.

 

11. Wife's father will always be worried about the daughter. He has to face the world about her chhuteli daughter. He is answerable with passing time. It will take only 2 to 3 tears  ... It will take 3 years for your wife to realize the mistake she made.

Kya kare kya naa kare ye kaisi mushkil haye........

She will repent, she will cry and she will be on the knees. Dont worry one year you will suffer to control your emotions but rest of the life she will.